Your wedding day will go by in a blur — but your photos will last a lifetime. And while it’s completely normal to feel a little nervous about being in front of the camera, the truth is: your wedding photos don’t have to be stiff, stressful, or overly posed.
With a little preparation and the right mindset, your photography experience can be one of the most relaxed and meaningful parts of your big day.
Here’s how to prep for your wedding photos (and actually enjoy it):
1. Trust Your Photographer
You’ve chosen your photographer for a reason — now let them guide you. A good photographer knows how to find the light, calm your nerves, and capture the emotion without forcing anything. The more relaxed you are, the more natural your images will feel.
Bonus tip: schedule a pre-wedding call or engagement shoot to get comfortable before the big day.
2. Build Buffer Time Into Your Timeline
One of the biggest photography stressors? Feeling rushed. Add at least 15–30 minutes of cushion time between key moments like getting ready, family portraits, and the ceremony. This allows space for the unexpected — and ensures we don’t miss a thing.
3. Golden Hour is Your Best Friend
That warm, glowy light about an hour before sunset? That’s golden hour — and it’s ideal for dreamy, romantic couple photos. If possible, plan your timeline to include 20–30 minutes for portraits during this time. You won’t regret it.
4. Keep Your Details Together
Want beautiful flat-lay photos of your rings, invitations, or accessories? Keep them in one spot (a box or bag works well) and have them ready when your photographer arrives. This makes things quick, easy, and stress-free.
5. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff
The wind might blow your veil. Your flower girl might refuse to walk. And your timeline may not run perfectly to plan. But sometimes, these are the moments that become your favourites. Embrace them. Let go of perfection — and be fully present.
6. Bring Comfy Shoes
No one wants to hike through grass in stilettos. Bring a pair of flats or slip-ons for walking between locations. We can always swap back to heels for photos!
7. Communicate Your Priorities
Have a special photo request? A family dynamic to be aware of? Let your photographer know in advance so nothing important is missed.
8. Focus on Each Other
The best photos happen when you forget about the camera and just enjoy each other. Laugh, snuggle, whisper, hold hands. I’ll be there to catch the magic — you just have to live it.
Final Thoughts
Prepping for your wedding photos isn’t about rehearsing poses — it’s about setting yourself up to feel calm, confident, and connected on the day. With thoughtful planning and a photographer you trust, your photos won’t just document your day… they’ll help you relive it.
Need help planning your timeline or want to chat about your shoot?
Let’s connect — I’d love to help make your day even more beautiful.